Stop Postponing and Creating Limits

We get so caught up in postponing things. We don’t wear our good perfume unless we're going on a date. How often does that happen? We keep clothes with tags on them as we can't wear them yet, because we'll need them for some event as we can’t touch our good clothes. We buy gadgets for our house but we can’t use them and if we do decide to use them it's only in use for when guests are visiting. We make rooms off limits as it’s set up for decor, and we have a fit if our children or pets cross the threshold. Why do we hold onto, and hold off on using what we have? Why do we finally get things after long contemplation to not use them? Why do we continue to have rules, conditions, and stipulations as to when we can enjoy our stuff? We limit ourselves in more ways than we realize when we place conditions on items. What areas of your life have you placed limits on? To be clear, limits are not the same as personal boundaries. Do you limit your enjoyment as to when you can and cannot be happy as it’s not the right time or place? Have you ever felt joyful while shopping in the store yet realized you were smiling and stopped to not appear “crazy”? How can feeling good be seen as something bad? Do you self-sabotage your once pleasant mood and great day by focusing on the negative all to feel down, angry, hurt, and confused? How many conversations have you taken the wrong way to fuel your flame? Think about it for a moment or as long as you need. We spend too much time moving away from our pleasantries then we do enjoying them. Go in the closet and wear it just because, put on the perfume as today is a special occasion. Use your good silverware as you don’t need a guest to come over in order for you to enjoy fine dining. What good is the couch if you can't sit on it, so grab a book or put the music on and curl up and relax. Today is the day to stop postponing and prolonging, and to remove unnecessary limits. See how satisfying it feels!

Peace, Blessings, Love and Light

BreezESOL September 24, 2021